Lesbian and Bisexual Support group

What does this mean?

caffeinatedgirl — Mon, 16 Nov 2009 15:41:15 -0800

There's a bi girl in my class that sits next to me, and I have a major crush on her. I mentioned homosexuality casually, because she did a project that mentioned it. After I did this, she told me it was because she and another guy in her group were "bendable" as far as that goes. Then she showed me a picture of her from a dance where a girl had her arm around her shoulder. I asked if she was her girlfriend, and she said, "My EX-girlfriend." Am I just imagining the emphasis on this? Does it have any significance? I'm going insane here, so any comments would be appreciated!

Why are some women such teases?

millshd08 — Sat, 14 Nov 2009 13:16:13 -0800

I have had a huge crush on this girl who openly claims to be bisexual and even has messed around with others amongst our group of friends. But when i go to make a move, she flirts for a little while and then turns into a complete maniac and shuts down. i've never considered myself horrible looking and i've tried everything i could to get her attention, but she's not having it.
why will she sleep with random unattractive guys and not even give me a chance?

Will the confusion every stop!?

millshd08 — Fri, 13 Nov 2009 11:51:14 -0800

Ever since I was 14 I knew I was attracted to both sexes.....well at first I thought it'd go away, but it never did. The most confusing part is it's not necessarily the gender I'm attracted to, it's the connection I have with the person, whether they're a man, woman, anything really. So does that make me bisexual? I often find myself wishing to be a woman again, but I am madly in love with my boyfriend of 2 years. I'm afraid I'm being unfaithful by desiring the opposite sex. It doesn't hurt to look right?
I guess my main concern would be, what sexual orientation am I? And I have begun rambling!!!

the ongoing confusion continues.

bella81 — Mon, 12 Oct 2009 19:36:59 -0700

Okay, so my whole reason for signing up with this website was finding a support group for bisexuality. I've never, ever been more confused in my entire life. I came out to my closest friends over the last two months or so, but I've known that I felt an attraction towards girls for quite some time before then. I'm very confused. I seem to be attracted to both genders, but in different ways. I have deep feelings for males, have had boyfriends in the past, and find myself attracted to them. But I've never had sex with one. That's right, I'm a twenty year old virgin.. and it's not from lack of interest on the male side. I just..can't. It's difficult to explain. I've "fooled around" with guys, but I didn't really enjoy it all that much.
I've never been with a girl before. I find myself attracted to them though. I notice when a girl is extremely attractive, fantasize about being with a woman, and when I watch porn, I find myself noticing the girl more than the guy. I guess I'm attracted to different things about different genders.
So what does all this make me? Does it make me straight and confused? Does it make me bisexual? A lesbian? I seriously just wish some one could open up my head and TELL me, because I can't seem to figure it out myself.. and it's so very frustrating .
- Isabella.

gayness seems so very... gay

ireeny — Fri, 05 Dec 2008 14:03:16 -0800

I want to see if I could handle a gay realationship, but have a well dodgy gaydar (so people get miighty offended when you mistake them for not straight!) so i don't know who else is gay/bi and I look too young to get into any clubs. So ladyfolk, I pose the question; what did you do about your feelings pre-18?

more to the story

maotto3 — Thu, 27 Nov 2008 13:12:43 -0800

ok, i havent shared 100% of it all... *sorry*
she's married. well, getting divorced, actually.
i told her how i felt and her response was not a yes or a no. it was something to the effect of: ive always been attracted to women but its been a while (i guess since shes been married). shes confused and needs to think. since then weve spent time together and weve talked pretty much like normal, just more frequently.
shes driving me nuts! couldnt she have just given me the "im flattered but..." line? that would have been easier then seeing her almost daily and not knowing what shes thinking, not knowing if ill ever be with her.
men are easier, thats for sure.

Confusion..

maotto3 — Sun, 12 Oct 2008 17:50:39 -0700

I always just thought of myself as "straight". Until I met Her.
That was three years ago and the feelings I have for Her have only intensified. I know She's been with women, I just don't know if She's interested in me. How the heck can a girl figure this puzzle out? *sigh*

BI-CURIOUS: Who would be better to explore the curiosity with?

janodani — Sat, 23 Aug 2008 20:08:04 -0700

I am currently in a serious relationship (with a guy) for 2 years. However I have noticed that I am also finding girls to be attractive. I even getting to the point where I am fantasizing about being with a girl and getting aroused (but I have never been with one).

I am not interested in being with a girl for relationship purposes, but more out of sexual pleasures that I can enjoy with or without my boyfriend.

However, what I'm finding difficult is whether or not to explore that curiosity with a friend or stranger. I have a friend that is bi and has experience being with other girls and recently we started flirting with each other (innocently) but now Im wondering if i should explore that curiosity with her or just a random stranger.

Please send your thoughts.......

a kiss

christina1 — Fri, 21 Mar 2008 07:12:51 -0700

I am a happy married women with one child I love my husband.
A couple of weeks ago I went out dancing with my best girlfriend of 9 years. Just us girls, we were dancing together pretty hot and shared a kiss. We are so close, I felt really bad about it. I told my husband and he is so cool about. He tells me I didn't do anything wrong. It's okay to try something new he tells me. I just have these strongs feelings for her I want more I think?? Is this wrong? Can two women be very happy with being married and once in a while get together and pleasure each other? I feel just awful thinking these things. I just love her in everyway, I don't want to run away with her I just enjoy my time with her. I am so confused about what's right and what's wrong?? I feel I can't really talk with anyone about this.

right now

M8ndy41 — Thu, 21 Jun 2007 23:19:32 -0700

Well, right now my life is at an interesting peak. I like this one woman, but i am still in love with my ex. We broke up almost 2 months ago and i want to be with her again, i want to fix the things we need to fix and be with her again, because i dont think i will ever click with anyone like this again. She means the world to me and i just want to make things work. I just hope that this is the right decision. My gut says no, sometimes, but right now i feel like it's all right. I just dont know.. i dont know what the future will bring, but i guess all i can do is live for today. We started talking about getting back together today, because we miss each other so much. I hope it works out and that we can get back together, because she is the love of my life.a few months ago.Our first picture together.