When I was in high school, during Desert Storm (1990, I think) we got into a debate about gays in the military in my history class. There was one big, fat, greasy dude with a mullet and a crustache who was like, "I don't want any gay guys seeing me naked, that would make me uncomfortable" and my (awesome) teacher said, "What, you think anyone would be attracted to you? Girls don't even like you." It was awesome.

Anyway, I hear you. I'm not dealing with it firsthand but I understand.

It's like when some guys first know about another's guy homosexuality and they are afraid that they'll get hit on. Like they're irresistible or something LOL. I'd suggest that until you know a person well, you should just keep it for yourself. It is a private subject anyways, unless you feel comfy sharing it with everybody of course.

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I'm straight-I wouldn't know.

I'm straight too, but I try to learn about as many subjects as possible. That's what being cultured is all about.

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I am also straight but I can see your issue. I know a lot of people who say "being gay or bi is fine just don't come near me". A lot of people have double standards and are just ignorant about things. Unfortunately I think there is nothing you can do about it. Maybe there is a different way you can word it when you tell people?? I dunno. Maybe people are just vain LOL!!!

also straight but totally could see that being an issue. I'm sorry people are so close minded.

I guess you really don't need to tell all of your friends, only the girls you find yourself interested in. That would solve it!

I am straight, but I have a TON of bi AND gay friends (male and female) and it seems to me like this is a pretty common thing to have happen from both sexes. Men and women both fear anything they are unfamiliar with, and they also want to have that security of feeling desired. I would say maybe get to be more active in the gay community or if you have a bisexual type group or something around where you are. If you are around people that are dealingw with the same stupid issues, you at least have people to vent to that really DO understand where you are coming from!!!! Then it may frustrate you less to know you are not the only one dealing with it.... either that or find friends that are more open minded!

Are you 100% sure you're bi even though you're only 14?
I feel that the status is very taboo these days.. when i was 14 it was cool to make out with girls at parties. I think most people who are REALLY questioning their sexuality at a young age are definately very quiet about it.. the fact that you're telling so many people seems like you're hungry for attention. if you don't like what kind of reactions people get, stop telling them!

I love it! Girls come onto me all the time, and my boy doesn't mind. So what's not to love! Honestly, what other people think DOES NOT matter. Love is universal!

I know how you feel. I'm also in the same boat as you, but i've just learned how to brush it off. People are going to think what they want regardless. Keep your head up and just go with the flow.

Nothing pisses me off more than the common ideas about Bisexual girls.
It's common that a lot of girls at a younger age experiment with gay relationships and so on, pretty much out of curiosity and I'm sure we've all been there.
It doesn't mean bisexuals are confused, or will date whoever comes along. Like lysaught20 said : Love is universal!
and I really don't like when someone says they are bisexual and with that term they try get away with dating a guy and a girl AT THE SAME TIME. It's really not cool. Younger girls do that for a fact, but I have seen a little older people do that as well. It's not right.
I really wish that bisexuals wouldn't be looked down on because of the wrong ideas people have.

I truly know what you're going through. I'm also bi, and I've told my closest friends about my sexual orientation. The only thing is that I was wise enough to know is who to open up to. Your friend, all I can say is that your friend is straight up ignorant. I hope that you explained to her about your likes and dislikes like you did to us.

Ah. It makes me laugh. Makes room for witty comebacks =]
A little off topic but it also makes me laugh that as soon as people know you're bisexual/a lesbian they get the stereotypical view in their mind.
When the people I work with found out I was bisexual one of the girls was like 'So what do you wear when you go out? Like, do you wear dresses and stuff?'
Bless the ignorant fools.

I can completely understand, that is why I do not say anything.