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	I Need Advice!!! by Lover Of Music	4	21	Jan 27 2012 - 3:19pm by Lover Of Music
	new to this group bi female by lazy b	2	21	Dec 14 2011 - 7:47pm by lazy b
	I need Advice!!!!!!! by Lover Of Music	1	38	Dec 16 2011 - 3:09pm by Lover Of Music
	New to website-advice on lesbian/bisexual marriage counselor? by RubyandBelle	0	13	Nov 7 2011 - 9:10pm by RubyandBelle
	Need support! by Wolfhart83	0	10	Dec 16 2011 - 3:06pm by Wolfhart83

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Lover Of Music I Need Advice!!! Dec 19, 2011 10:38 PM How do I go about flirting and trying to go out with a girl well a woman since I'm 20 now :D........ Also is is wrong to only be attracted to only older woman like btwn 25-35..... This so embarrassing lol Wolfhart83 Need support! Dec 16, 2011 3:06 PM I'm 28and I figured that I'm bi. I would love a support group. Thanx! RubyandBelle New to website-advice on lesbian/bisexual marriage counselor? Nov 7, 2011 9:10 PM I have a somewhat sappy story to relate. =) My best friend and I (we're both women) have recently decided to become engaged. We originally met in the 8th grade through a mutual friend and were instantly friends and have been thisclose ever since. After high school I left for the military and she stayed in our home state....we were out of touch periodically during the next several years but always managed to catch up with each other and pick right back up where we left off. We have both had serious relationships with men (I have a 5 year old; she was married) and recently moved back to our hometown following major life changes (my contract with the military was up, she had come home to work at her family's restaurant). As we have spent more time with each other we realized that we care about each other very much, complement each other very well. are fantastically happy together and want to move to the next level. We don't have a lot of differences in the "big stuff" (neither one of us are particularly religious, we have informed discussions on politics, we can happily mock each other's music choices, hahahaha) but we would still like to meet with a marriage counselor so we can talk and discuss things that maybe neither one of us has thought about and the more serious issues with an outside second opinion (children for example-it's hard to discuss at this time because neither one of us want a (another)  child right now). The problem is that we don't know how to go about finding a marriage counselor. Should the fact that we are both women be mentioned?? I know not everyone is open so should we make it a point to seek a counselor who deals specifically with lesbian/bisexual marriages?? Do they even HAVE those?? Does anyone have any advice about this?? I had a (heterosexual) friend who recommended pre-marriage counseling because she said that she did it before marrying her husband and it did wonders helping them decide "how"  they wanted to be married and gave them the tools to deal with some rather large (and unpredicted) situations that came up later. She was really supportive and for it but then we were all wondering....do they DO that for same-sex couples? lazy b new to this group bi female Oct 26, 2011 2:28 AM i am engaged to my fiance and i want to have girl join us once awhile but he refuses it real hurts cuz he knew i was bi before we started dating and we have a 6yr old together and i am torn emotionally dearyvette78 I told him. Oct 13, 2011 8:22 PM I told my husband a few days ago that i am attracted to women and he told me that he knew that a few years ago. I feel so much better. I didnt tell him about my girlfriend that i have had for over a year though. I told her what i told him, and she wasnt too happy, but it helps me sleep at night.

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